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Effort – What It’s All About

Posted: October 26, 2014 in Mental Focus

“Effort – a vigorous or determined attempt; strenuous physical or mental exertion”

Effort seems to be a scary and immeasurable word. We all know what it means to some degree, however, we all have different levels of effort. The mysteriousness of effort is what is attractive about it. How do we know if we’re giving maximal effort towards something?

I recommend to write down what it is you are trying to accomplish presently and what your original motives were going in, and where those have gotten you. While being COMPLETELY honest with yourself, evaluate your effort. No cheating, be honest for this is for your eyes only for self reflection.

Next, make a whole new list of what you think you can improve on. Write down your new goals, even if a few are the same, and then start to identify those factors in your life that have been causing you to come up short.

Here’s an example: 

Maybe your goal is you want to get in shape and start eating better. A quick assessment would show that you watch 2-4 hours of TV every night, followed by surfing the internet and playing games on your phone. What’s preventing you from exercising and eating better? TV, which then causes you to stay up late, surf the web, get on social media, get up late, go to work, and as a result have no time in between. Some people consider that a hard, busy life. A routine dose of maximal effort.

If those are your priorities, then yes, those two things, work and TV, take up ALL of your time, leaving you no time for anything else. So your time to YOU seems extremely limited for anything else. What happens when you take those countless, wasted hours of television out of your daily routine? You have an hour for the gym, an hour to cook your dinner AND lunch for the next day, and time for extra sleep. With that extra sleep, you can now get up earlier, have some personal devotion time, eat breakfast, and feel much more accomplished and fulfilled going into your day. Not to mention you will be SO MUCH more productive.

Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.”

The 3 phases of fitness (physical fitness, nutrition, and mental health) must have complete effort. If you lack effort, then CF 4 Tdon’t expect any effort in return from your body, mind, or soul. These 3 phases of fitness work in tandem with one another to bring a complete balance to your life. If you short-change one, in time, you short-change them all. If you don’t eat or exercise correctly, don’t expect your body to produce results. If after a hard day at work, you decide to come home and “shut your mind off” by watching mindless TV and eating “garbage,” while staying up past unreasonable hours, don’t expect your mind to have the alertness to function the next day.

When it comes to your mental health, if we don’t make that time to reflect, pray, “sharpen the saw” – whatever it may be, then don’t expect to feel fulfillment without an internal love of yourself and something greater.

We put ourselves in these situations, constantly, stating that we don’t like the way we look, feel, or where we’re at in life. Yet, we go through the same motions and do the same negative things on a regular basis, with the same mediocre and lethargic effort. Seek out guidance and advice, educate yourself, and find a healthy circle of influence to keep you in-tune with your goals.

“So make every effort to apply the benefits of these promises to your life. Then your faith will produce a life of moral excellence. A life of moral excellence leads to knowing God better. Knowing God leads to self-control. Self-control leads to patient endurance, and patient endurance leads to godliness. Godliness leads to love for other Christians, and finally you will grow to have genuine love for everyone.” 

2 Peter 1:5-7

 

The Road Only YOU Can Travel

Posted: October 17, 2014 in Mental Focus
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“Not I, nor anyone else can travel that road for you.
You must travel it by yourself.
It is not far. It is within reach.
Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and did not know.
Perhaps it is everywhere – on water and land.”
― Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

For many individuals, choosing to walk the road of personal fitness is easy at the beginning…until you get into the meat (no pun intended), of it and realize you can’t keep living the same way you were in the past. Yes, that means this road is going to have new sights to see, new hills to climb and new distances to walk. Can you take that road with a friend? Absolutely, but they cannot move your legs for you, you must do your part in this journey to make it to the destination you desire.

Anyone reading this and processing personally whether to embark on this fitness journey or not, let me help you out with some high’s and low’s of saying yes to fitness:

Highs:

  • You will have more energy
  • You’ll get more sleep
  • You will feel better
  • You will be healthier (aka live longer)
  • You will look better (not that looks are the important reason to be fit)
  • Eventually you will not want foods bad for you, because you will feel bad when you eat them
  • Your body will adjust and desire healthy foods (fats, carbs and protein)
  • You’ll educate yourself on what your body needs (NOT what it is you want)
  • You will learn self-discipline and self-control
  • You’ll be more excited to be social and go experience life
  • You’ll save money by cooking more healthy meals at home rather than eating out

Lows:

  • Sugars, starchy carbs and overeating you will only be able to do in moderation (eventually if you still want these things)
  • You will have to say no to some of your favorite deserts and treats – yes even at social get-together’s
  • Sometimes you will be the odd man out not eating something the crowds are which may cause you to stick out
  • You won’t be able to drink as much
  • You can’t stay up late at night and wake up early for work (yep, you will actually need to get adequate sleep)
  • Workouts will NOT be easy all of the time – you will HAVE to sweat
  • To keep your metabolism burning, you will have to eat multiple meals/snacks a day (so no skipping breakfast because you are too busy)
  • Your friends/family may tell you how you are “changing” and be sad that you don’t eat the same way they do
  • You will have cravings…and you will have to train yourself to redirect your attention to healthy thing

Without a doubt, taking the path towards personal fitness is a choice only you can make. At Fouard Fitness we do our best to offer support, encouragement and accountability to those seeking a partner on this road. However, to walk each day in the right direction is up to you.

What other highs and lows can you think of when it comes to being fit or staying in your normal lifestyle? Maybe you are already feeling great and on this path – if so GOOD FOR YOU! Share with us below what you find motivating to stay on the path towards fitness.

Anyone interested in taking this journey and wanting to learn more, e-mail us at fouardfitness@gmail.com, or visit the “Take the Challenge” page at the top of our website.

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